Loosing contact with Thai girlfriend, what should I do ?
Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 9:05 pm
I recent went to Thailand and met a girl from a bar who I ended up spending 4 months living with why I was there.
We travelled around Thailand together, I know everyones heard this one before but she really didnt seem like a typical bar girl, she was a very good girl. I have read all the books and heard all the horror stories but they didnt really relate to me as i am just 24 and my girlfiend being 22.
Beleive it or not after originally paying my girl for the first 2 nights I didnt give her any money for the rest of the time I was there. Yes i'd pay for food and things but thats nothing. I was however a little concerned about something else, i was really scared that she seemed to really want a baby. She tried to hide this but I could see it, they all seem to want babies with farang because they are so beautiful.
Anyway I really thought i'd fallen for her but now im home im just thinking its best to forget her and get an english girlfiend.
Im not sure how long i could be happy with a thai girl because there seems to be such communication problems. Yeah its fun and exciting and i allways thought i wanted a foreign girlfriend.
Anyway now im home she keeps ringing me and sending me sms asking why i dont call her. Truth is im confused and its to expensive for me to ring. I feel really guilty like shes waiting for me, I dont send her any money and never will because thats when you loose control.
She tells me she worked bar to meet a boyfriend and she has only worked bar for 4 months going with 5 men in total. She did have a boyfriend from ireland and he was sending her money for a few months but then stopped. She was also from a rich family, her dad owning a farm and having 2 cars. So this explains why she had money, she would often pay for things when we went out together.
Im very confused, what should i do ?
loose contact ?
Tell her to forget me and move on ?
She seems to have really fell in love with me and think I will break her heart.
We travelled around Thailand together, I know everyones heard this one before but she really didnt seem like a typical bar girl, she was a very good girl. I have read all the books and heard all the horror stories but they didnt really relate to me as i am just 24 and my girlfiend being 22.
Beleive it or not after originally paying my girl for the first 2 nights I didnt give her any money for the rest of the time I was there. Yes i'd pay for food and things but thats nothing. I was however a little concerned about something else, i was really scared that she seemed to really want a baby. She tried to hide this but I could see it, they all seem to want babies with farang because they are so beautiful.
Anyway I really thought i'd fallen for her but now im home im just thinking its best to forget her and get an english girlfiend.
Im not sure how long i could be happy with a thai girl because there seems to be such communication problems. Yeah its fun and exciting and i allways thought i wanted a foreign girlfriend.
Anyway now im home she keeps ringing me and sending me sms asking why i dont call her. Truth is im confused and its to expensive for me to ring. I feel really guilty like shes waiting for me, I dont send her any money and never will because thats when you loose control.
She tells me she worked bar to meet a boyfriend and she has only worked bar for 4 months going with 5 men in total. She did have a boyfriend from ireland and he was sending her money for a few months but then stopped. She was also from a rich family, her dad owning a farm and having 2 cars. So this explains why she had money, she would often pay for things when we went out together.
Im very confused, what should i do ?
loose contact ?
Tell her to forget me and move on ?
She seems to have really fell in love with me and think I will break her heart.