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Loosing contact with Thai girlfriend, what should I do ?

Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 9:05 pm
by gptculture
I recent went to Thailand and met a girl from a bar who I ended up spending 4 months living with why I was there.
We travelled around Thailand together, I know everyones heard this one before but she really didnt seem like a typical bar girl, she was a very good girl. I have read all the books and heard all the horror stories but they didnt really relate to me as i am just 24 and my girlfiend being 22.
Beleive it or not after originally paying my girl for the first 2 nights I didnt give her any money for the rest of the time I was there. Yes i'd pay for food and things but thats nothing. I was however a little concerned about something else, i was really scared that she seemed to really want a baby. She tried to hide this but I could see it, they all seem to want babies with farang because they are so beautiful.
Anyway I really thought i'd fallen for her but now im home im just thinking its best to forget her and get an english girlfiend.
Im not sure how long i could be happy with a thai girl because there seems to be such communication problems. Yeah its fun and exciting and i allways thought i wanted a foreign girlfriend.

Anyway now im home she keeps ringing me and sending me sms asking why i dont call her. Truth is im confused and its to expensive for me to ring. I feel really guilty like shes waiting for me, I dont send her any money and never will because thats when you loose control.

She tells me she worked bar to meet a boyfriend and she has only worked bar for 4 months going with 5 men in total. She did have a boyfriend from ireland and he was sending her money for a few months but then stopped. She was also from a rich family, her dad owning a farm and having 2 cars. So this explains why she had money, she would often pay for things when we went out together.

Im very confused, what should i do ?
loose contact ?

Tell her to forget me and move on ?

She seems to have really fell in love with me and think I will break her heart.

Just saw post. My opinion...

Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:37 am
by benmajor
first I have to ask: I am not sure what you really want? You really don't want relationship or you do? You just don't want to hurt her? Is the problem she is too far away but if she lived near you you would have no problem being boyfriend?

4 months later

Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2006 8:55 pm
by gptculture
Well I did what I wanted to and told her that it would never work and to forget about me. A few calls of crying and the rest and everything was fine.

Im now living back in the real world and doing just excellent.

When I do go back to Thailand I'm certainly not gonna get hooked up with another Thai girl. They just want it far to much for my liking.

Gawin I love you long time, you number 1 only 1.


Although I do miss certain aspects !!!!!!!!!!

You must be proud of yourself

Posted: Thu Aug 15, 2013 6:19 pm
by mads
Though it's long since you posted this, I felt so bad when I read your post that I went to register to write back.

How can you look yourself in the mirror? I never heard anything more selfish in my life. The only positive thing is, she's better of without someone like you.

Re: Loosing contact with Thai girlfriend, what should I do ?

Posted: Mon Jan 22, 2018 1:14 am
by eraser
I can't believe such people exist.
I refer to gptculture.

Re: Loosing contact with Thai girlfriend, what should I do ?

Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2018 11:10 am
by TaniaIslam
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